Marriage is the most beautiful relationship in the eyes of Allah. Husband and wife should be a good partners in the decision-making process. Both should show love and affection towards each other. If husband and wife are happy from each other, Allah will be happy for them. To make the relationship strong, friendly, and beautiful, it is essential to exchange gifts, such as beautiful praying mats for your spouse. Gifts are beautiful memories, and nothing can be a good gift than any Islamic gift for your spouse. It helps you and your spouse to keep close to each other.
TIPS TO MAKE YOUR RELATIONSHIP STRONG WITH YOUR SPOUSE
Allah describes the relation of marriage beautifully in the Quran:
He created for you mates from among yourselves that ye may dwell in tranquility with them, and He has put love and mercy between your (hearts) . . ." (Holy Quran 30:21 Yusuf Ali translation).
Following are the tips to make your bond strong with your partner:
- No one should be tyrant
- Never be emotionally, mentally, physically abusive towards your partner
- When one of you is upset, be careful about your words
- Show affection, love, and respect towards your partner
- Your relationship should be friendly with your partner
- Always work together in the house, do not let down your partner in any way
- If one of you did something great, appreciate your partner. Let them know by your acts or words that how much you are proud of your partner. Never be jealous of each other success
- Wife and Husband should pray together. Prayer mat Muslims used to offer their prayer so they can gift each other.
- After the marriage, forget about the past. Enjoy the present and think about a bright future
- Always communicate with your partner
- Give alone time to each other. Do not enter into the other person personal space
- If one of you is on the mistake, admit your mistake and should be apologizing for that
- Forgive each other mistakes
- Physical relationship is essential to make your bond strong with your spouse
RIGHTS OF HUSBAND AND WIFE
It is a husband's right that his wife fulfils his every wish or desire to make him happy. A wife should protect herself, her children, and his wealth. She should not do anything by going against her husband. It is the responsibility of the wife to welcome and see off her husband. Holy Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) said that if a woman hurts her husband through her words, Allah shall not accept anything from her, not even gold and silver nor any of her excellent deeds, until she makes happy her husband.
Hazart Imam Jafar Sadiq (A.S.) said:
"A woman who prays five times a day, fasts during the blessed month of Ramadan, obeys her husband, recognizes the right of Hazrat Ali (a.s.), she can enter Paradise through any door she wants.
For a husband, her wife is the center of his comfort and the medium of his happiness. Her wife is a great bounty. The wife has a right that her husband treats her with love, kindness, affection and attachment. The Holy Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) has repeatedly highlighted the rights of women during his last stage of life. It is a responsibility of a husband to take care of his wife, protect her from this world, and take care of her every necessity. Hazrat Imam Jafri said that if a husband cannot provide support to his wife, cannot provide food, clothing, and her all basic requirements, and then he should not be with her, then it is better to give her divorce.
ISLAMIC GIFTS FOR HUSBAND
Following are the ideas to give an Islamic gift to your beloved husband:
- Digital Quran or Quran with the translation. Quran bookmarks and Quran wooden stand
- An azan wristwatch, Beside Azan clock, Islamic wall clock
- Islamic jewelry like silver plated rings with the name of Allah
- Islamic wall art, Islamic Calligraphy
- New set of kurta and pajama on special events like Eid
- Beard kit
- Umrah or Hajj kit
- Kufi caps for prayer
- Travel prayer mat
- The Kaaba model as a decoration piece
- Islamic key chains
- Other Islamic books
IDEAS OF ISLAMIC GIFTS FOR WIFE
Following are the ideas of Islamic gifts for wife:
- Different colors of hijab sets with abaya
- Islamic jewelry like sliver plated and gold pendant or necklace with the name of Allah, Islamic rings, Islamic bracelets
- Islamic wall arts and decoration pieces for home
- Quran and other Islamic books, Quran bookmarks and a wooden stand for Quran
- Padded prayer mat
- Islamic azan watch with Qibla direction
- Personalized Islamic gifts like a gold necklace with her name, personalized cup for her.
KEY POINTS THAT SHOULD KEEP IN MIND WHILE SELECTING A GIFT
When you select a gift for your spouse, it is essential to keep your spouse taste in your mind. Please choose a gift according to their choice. Do not think about the money when you are selecting a gift. A gift is an expression of love and respect, and money does not matter whether it's expensive or inexpensive. It will be the reflection of your love towards your partner. Choose Islamic products over modern products. For example, if your partner offers prayers five times a day and never miss a single prayer, then you can gift your partner different prayer matts. It would be an excellent gift for your loved one.
CONCLUSION
To live a healthy life, it is essential to make a strong bond with your partner. A gift is a beautiful way of expressing your love. So always choose an Islamic gift for your partner. It will show love towards them as well as towards Allah. Always stay happy with each other, Allah will be happy from you, then your life would be easy in this world also in the next world.
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